How does one succeed in life?

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

That's it for today.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

What seemingly minor decision or moment in your past ended up having a massive impact on your entire life trajectory?

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

What I need from you?

Hangs out with loser friends.

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However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Do not set goals—set systems.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

How many of you have had your parental rights taken away because of lies and no truth whatsoever, and did you prove the lies that were told about you to be false either through drug testing or another way, but still had your rights taken?

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

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Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Is it possible for people who claim to be genuine and honest to actually not be? If so, why do they behave this way?

Ask yourself:

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Living to your full potential is a goal.

How do you know when your skirt is too short?

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Making more friends is a goal.

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Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

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The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Does not procrastinate.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Is it very wrong to want to spend some time with husband after continuous work for 5 days in a weekend because my husband thinks if we go out every weekend what night my parents and other family members think?

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

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Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Procrastinates a lot.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

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Big dreamer but only in his mind.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

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Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

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Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.